What causes marriage to end in divorce? Many spouses ignore the signs that cause marriage to end in divorce.  The main reason for relationships to end in divorce is that couples do not know how to raise issues and resolve them. Instead, it ends up becoming a negative interaction that causes them to hurt each other, until […]

Is your relationship controlled by passive aggressive behavior? Does your spouse say they will do something to please you, but actually behave in an opposite manner? Passive aggressive individuals often ignore how they feel, to make others happy and then show their real feelings by not following through with what they said they would do. Passive aggressive individuals sacrifice their own needs,  so their needs […]

Does your partner feel mistreated by your aggressive behavior?    Many come to counselling because someone else has told them they have aggressive behavior, but they cannot see it, saying “She over reacts, thinks I am violent or I only get this way because she pushes my buttons”. Many are not aware when they blow up, become […]

What increases the risks of getting into an emotionally abusive relationship? Jumping into a relationship too quickly before you know the person, because it feels good or helps you get over your ex.   e.g Swept up in the charm and need to be wanted. Ignoring the warning signs and red flags that something isn’t right. […]

 Do you find yourself being a self-sacrificer, care taker, rescuer and martyr in your relationships? Do you wonder why you continually do this?  Do you find others take advantage of you or your not strong enough to stand up for yourself? Do you constantly invest in your partner, more than yourself? Do you eventually end […]

Ever feel you push away your partners until they leave you?  Do you become suspicious or paranoid they could be cheating or find someone better? Do you hold on tight to your relationship, so they do not leave? Do you focus so much on your relationship and forget about yourself? Do you sacrifice yourself for the […]

Unlock Relationship Patterns with a marriage counselling in Perth Are you noticing the same old relationship patterns? Did you think they would go away if you found  someone else? The reality is, we take our selves into each relationship, so our habits come with us, even if we felt it was our partners fault. We […]

How a marriage counsellor can prevent relationship breakdown? When marital issues occur, it provides an opportunity to work on defensive relationship patterns with a marriage counselor. Many couples avoid counselling for marriage problems because they feel they can sort issues out on the own. Our human blinds spots prevent us from seeing our behavior that contributes to […]

Why do so many individuals await for that perfect sole mate, to be everything they wanted, and how does this fantasy blind them, creating bitter disillusionment and heartache? How is real intimacy developed? Why relationships end abruptly? Many are on the conquest to find their perfect sole mate, who can meet all their needs, to […]

How to recover from infidelity and Affairs? Marital affairs destroy relationships, yet many couples do not seek help for relationship issues until infidelity has occurred.  Once adultery has occurred the betrayal and mistrust leaves their partner heartbroken, yet many fail to recognize the signs of an affair and enable it to continue by denying it is […]